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Why choose a mixed-age centre?

Emma Parangi
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3 February 2020
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Mixed age siblings playing together at daycare Glen Eden

If you're feeling unsure

When I show new parents around our mixed-age early childhood centre I often see the same expression. It’s a look of slight concern or worry. Usually once they feel comfortable in our space they will ask the questions behind that expression. For parents of infants it can seem daunting to have our youngest pēpi (babies) in the same space as 4 year olds, who look very grown up in comparison. There is large equipment and a lot of potential risks for their little ones. For parents of older children, particularly 4year olds, there is the question of whether their tamaiti (child) will be prepared for school if they spend all day playing with babies and younger peers.

By the time we have walked through the centre and discussed our philosophy for teaching and learning, and how a mixed-age setting works, most parents feel more relaxed about these concerns with a new found understanding of the benefits and magic a mixed-age early learning environment offers. So let’s answer those questions together now, no worried expressions necessary!

Cool communicators

There are many benefits of a mixed-age setting for babies and young children. First, there is opportunity for more complex cognitive development across several areas when tamariki (children) are in a setting where they have to modify their social interactions based on the age and developmental stage of who they are interacting with. It makes sense, if a 2 year old wants to join in play with older children, the language they use, the body language, the facial expressions, and their behaviour will have to be different than if they want to join in with another 2 year old. Not only that, they will need to know the difference and choose which communication style to apply in each interaction. This equals=more complex cognitive development.

Helping Hands

In addition to communication, children in a mixed age setting also have daily opportunities for strengthening their moral behaviours, for example helping and caring for others. The psychological development behind this is related to internal state language. For example, older children can practice describing and thinking about the feelings, wants and abilities of their younger peers, enabling them to understand these states more clearly in themselves. Younger children see this self awareness modelled by their tuakana (older peers). In practice I see this every day at my mixed-age centre. There is a culture of care and respect that develops naturally when babies and young children are in a space together, as they would be in a whānau (family) setting. Everyone takes care of each other, it is a wonderful environment for learning and growth.

Ready for school?

To answer the question of 4 year olds being prepared for school: our curriculum documents, primary school teachers and early childhood teachers describe the most important skills a child needs to be ready for school as:

  • social competence-they can work cooperatively and build relationships;
  • self-care and regulation-they can listen to their bodies and make choices to keep themselves safe and happy;
  • curiosity and willingness to learn-they want to discover new things and explore in new ways.

All of these skills are seeded and nurtured in the unique culture of a mixed-age setting.

A bi-cultural perspective

In Te Ao Māori (the Māori world/view), the relationship between older and younger peers is called tuakana (elder)-teina (younger). This relationship encompasses the ideas of ako (reciprocal teaching and learning) where both the tuakana and teina have opportunities to be the nurtured and the nurturer, the teacher and the learner, the expert and the novice. This is the perfect explanation of the benefits of a mixed-age early learning centre. We are a community, a whānau, and the learning and growth that happens here is based on shared responsibility, a strong sense of belonging, and aroha (love).

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We moved to New Zealand about 11 months ago with two young children who needed to start kindergarten. I visited three centres, but "Our Kids Early Learning Centre" made a really good impression from the start - and what a great choice it turned out to be. When we arrived, my children knew "zero English". The staff were incredibly patient and supportive, and slowly the kids adapted, gained confidence, and started engaging with the language, culture, and other children. They made our transition to a new country so much easier. Over the months, we saw huge progress in their English and confidence. My daughter has now started school, and the centre prepared her really well for that transition. I still have my other child there and would highly recommend "Our Kids". We are very grateful to the amazing staff for all their support. ❤️
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Melissa Brown
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Our daughter recently graduated from Our Kids Glendene after attending from age 2 to 5, and we truly couldn’t have asked for a better start to her early years. We chose this kindy based on a strong family recommendation, and it absolutely lived up to the praise. The mixed age environment creates such a warm, family like atmosphere, with everything the children need to grow, learn, and thrive at their own pace. The teachers are incredible, caring, dedicated, and genuinely invested. They’ve become like aunties to our children. Even now we still pop in for visits and are always welcomed so warmly, it really feels like we never left. We feel so lucky to have had such a genuine, nurturing place so close to home. Highly recommend to any family looking for a warm, supportive, community focused kindy.
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Unaiza Ali
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We had a wonderful experience with this daycare. The staff are caring, patient, and truly dedicated to the children’s wellbeing and development. My son always felt safe, happy, and engaged in the activities provided.
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My kids love this kindy alway there for my kids giving the best interest for them
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August Wu
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My son started with our kids onehunga from 8 months old. I was so nervous as first time mom how would the experience would be. Little did I know I found a really amazing place for my son. J is almost 2 years and I trusted the team to look after my baby. They are very kind, supportive, positive and I feel grateful as a mom and my son could be part of this community. Arti always amazing. Nandita, Yolanda, Mari, Liz, Anu, Tina and many more. They are amazing too. Sending many 🫶🏻 & respect ✨ to our Kaiako at Our Kids Onehunga.
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Maddie Turner
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As a first time mum sending my boys to daycare at 2.5years old till 5 years old, I look back and know I picked the best I could have hoped for! The facility itself is small, homey and inviting. The staff, even when management changed a couple of times, the level of care towards my boys never wavered. The aroha, the reasurrance, the transparency and kindness at this centre was incredible. Our Kids Glendene has a special place in mine and my boys hearts. Whanau to us by they time they left for school. ❤️ Thank you all staff at Our Kids, for your level of care and compassion for my beautiful boys!
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Robby Payne
27 August 2025
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As a social worker, I have had the privilege of working alongside Brooke MacClure at Our Kids Early Learning Centre. I want to acknowledge the incredible kindness, care, and dedication they show not only to the tamariki but also to the whānau I work with. They have gone above and beyond to ensure whānau are supported with their essential needs, generously providing items for those experiencing financial hardship. The level of aroha and commitment they bring to their role is truly inspiring, and it makes a meaningful difference in the lives of our community. I am very grateful for the mahi they have done for me and continue to do.
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Our boy loved going to Our Kids. The teachers are welcoming and supportive, and want the very best for your kids. Lots of special connections made at this community spot.
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